I have gained some recognition and expertise through my encounters with a psychopath. However, I would have preferred to remain in my naive belief that people are inherently good and capable of love if given a chance.
Due to my expertise, people seek me out for information and support regarding psychopathy and dealing with individuals on the Anti-social Personality Disorder spectrum (ASPD). As a coach and counselor, I do work with clients involved in the struggle with psychopaths, but I limit my engagement with psychopaths and their victims to 10% of my overall work. This allows me to stay focused on my main mission of helping others achieve their best.
Life has a way of throwing distractions at us and derailing our progress just when things seem to be on track. It can knock us off balance and hinder our life’s purpose.
When I do engage in psychopath-related work, I primarily assist victims of psychopathic predators. However, it’s important to note that not all psychopaths are predators, although that is their natural inclination. I also work with psychopaths who lead ordinary lives, contribute positively to the community, and seek support in maintaining a “normal” life.
What is a Psychopath?
Diagnosing a psychopath is a challenging task that consumes the time and effort of psychologists and psychiatrists. For victims or potential victims of psychopathic predators, the primary concern is to:
#1 – Identify the psychopath To help quickly identify a potential psychopathic predator, I have created a concise list of attributes. While this list is not exhaustive, it provides an effective means of recognizing a psychopath. Here are the key characteristics:
- Charismatic
- Intelligent
- Lack of emotions
- Impulsive
- Always wanting to win
- Never admitting to being wrong
Although this list is not comprehensive, it serves as a starting point for identifying a psychopath and taking appropriate action.
What if the individual is not truly a psychopath?
In such cases, does it truly matter? The crucial step for the victim is to take immediate action to protect themselves, minimizing further suffering and losses.
#2 – Take immediate action Here is a short list of steps to consider when dealing with a psychopath:
- Cut off all contact
- Seek help and support
- Keep the situation confidential
- Stay emotionally strong
- Document incidents and interactions
- Forgive yourself for any perceived mistakes
For more detailed information, further resources, and guidance on specific circumstances, additional assistance is recommended.