You have rights and they have clearly been violated. More importantly, your safety and security are the first matters of business to be tended to. In the beginning, due to the losses, you may have suffered, you might expect some payback from the psychopath, at the very least you might think about having a chance… Continue reading Your Rights and Law Enforcement
Documentation Journaling Family Friends and Contact
DOCUMENTATION The better the documentation, the sooner following the experience, will offer the best report of the details. As time goes on, the details become fuzzy, less accurate, or reliable. So, as soon as possible, get this story on paper as chronologically ordered as possible, with as much detail as the victim can muster. If… Continue reading Documentation Journaling Family Friends and Contact
Unravelling the Entangled Web of Psychopathic Tripwires
Having the experience of being exposed to a predatory psychopath has given him or her ample opportunity to set up a sophisticated and intertwined set of tripwires that are booby-trapped and can be tripped by anything from the slightest thought to being triggered by sensory perception, sight, sound, touch, audio, or sense of smell that… Continue reading Unravelling the Entangled Web of Psychopathic Tripwires
Should I Seek Revenge for Being Victimized by a Psychopath?
No doubt you have been victimized by a predatory psychopath, and you would like to see justice served by such a wrongdoer. Do whatever you can to avoid seeking revenge. Going after a psychopath will cause more angst and trouble for the victim. High-level psychopaths hope that their victims will try to try to avenge… Continue reading Should I Seek Revenge for Being Victimized by a Psychopath?
How Could You Do That?
How could you free yourself from that psychopath, just to let it loose to find other victims and victimize them? How could you do that? You should have done something to stop the psychopath from victimizing anyone else. Especially if you knew that is exactly what this psycho would do. How could you? This is… Continue reading How Could You Do That?
The Psychopath Ex
I had several clients who were married to and divorced from a psychopath or in a relationship and out of a relationship. They successfully exited these circumstances, when they finally got the psychopath to leave. The reason the psychopaths left was not because the victim had protested enough that he or she finally gave up… Continue reading The Psychopath Ex
Workplace Psychopath
Very few people suffer from being victimized by a psychopath for predatory psychopaths are very few and highly selective about those whom they take advantage of or terrorize. You may encounter a workplace psychopath and ask, “If my coworker is a psychopath what can I do?” If you are part of a large organization, the… Continue reading Workplace Psychopath
Psychopathic Abuse
Being a victim of psychopathic abuse is different from other types of abuse and most victims will find it difficult to put the past where it belongs because the psychopath has weaved him or herself throughout so many facets of your life making this very hard to unravel. But unravel it you must if you… Continue reading Psychopathic Abuse
When Someone Twists Your Words
How can you unravel the mess that is made when someone twists your words? Who would warp what you say into something unrecognizable or offensive? And why might anyone be motivated to mash up what you mean to say? It has long been an effective defense tactic to twist up the words of any… Continue reading When Someone Twists Your Words
When Good Counseling Goes Bad
Before any counselor, coach, or therapist has been embroiled in the affairs of a predatory psychopath, he or she may not be equipped with the proper skills to deal with the psychopath. This shows up most noticeably when working with couples. This is when otherwise good counseling goes bad. It is not the fault… Continue reading When Good Counseling Goes Bad