Although I have made efforts to avoid it, I have acquired expertise in an area that has drawn people to me for training. Through personal experience with predatory psychopaths, I became aware of their existence, dispelling my previous beliefs that such individuals were products of paranoia or an overactive imagination.
As a result, I started attracting victims of psychopaths who sought my assistance. Soon, other professionals in the therapeutic community began seeking me out for coaching, which eventually led to the development of a course designed for therapists and victims.
In an attempt to reach and assist as many people as possible in a short amount of time, I initially set out to create a comprehensive 3-minute video titled “How to Deal with a Psychopath.” However, the video ended up being 10 minutes long. Subsequently, I released it as a How to Deal with a Psychopath book on Kindle book and later developed a textbook for the course called the “Psychopath Victims Toolkit.”
Currently, I dedicate only ten percent of my time and energy to my ministry to raising awareness about predatory psychopaths who are constantly seeking their next victims. These predators specifically target individuals who possess admirable traits that most of us aspire to have. The psychopathic goal is to undermine and leave these victims broken and vulnerable.
I have discovered that my efforts are better-spent training professionals and individuals who wish to assist others in combating the destructive abuse inflicted by psychopathic predators or recovering from their harmful influence. These individuals are better equipped to provide the empathy and support that victims of psychopaths require. This approach allows me to help more people in a shorter time.
If you are a victim of a predatory psychopath, it is crucial to seek assistance from a coach, counselor, or therapist with experience in dealing with psychopaths and their victims. Someone lacking knowledge or expertise in this area will be of little real help to you, as I once was before learning about these individuals who blend into society like wolves in sheep’s clothing.
It’s important to note that psychopathy exists on a spectrum, ranging from non-destructive psychopaths with a dark sense of humor to serial killers. While we now refer to their place on the Anti-Social Personality Disorder spectrum in our politically correct world, I wouldn’t dismiss all psychopaths outright. Only those who seek to destroy lives for their pleasure or gain require our vigilance and readiness to take action when we or someone we know becomes their potential victim.
In my caseload, I have encountered non-predatory psychopaths who, like the rest of us, are simply doing their best and are well-suited for certain positions that may make others uncomfortable.
If you are currently being victimized by a predatory psychopath, I strongly recommend watching my video, “How to Deal with a Psychopath,” the companion to my , and taking action to protect yourself from further pain, suffering, or loss. Find someone trustworthy to confide in, someone who will not judge or downplay the impact of being victimized by a psychopath.
There is hope for a life beyond your encounter with a psychopath. Stay true to yourself and remain committed to your safety and recovery. You are a good person, which is likely why they targeted you. Don’t allow them to extinguish the best parts of you. Healing awaits you, where you are loved and valued.